“THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE BODY.”

There are two essential elements of life-long faithfulness in marriage,

namely: The offering of one’s self and sacrifice.

Was it not through offering/giving and sacrifice that God’s saving plan in Jesus proceeded? 

 

St. Stephen of Hungary/ St. Roch

＊＊＊ 1st Reading ＊＊＊     

Ezekiel 16:1-15, 60, 63*

The word of Yahweh

Came to me in these terms, "Son of man, make known to Jerusalem its sins. You say on my behalf: Your beginning was in Canaan; there, you were born. Your father was an Amorite and your mother a Hittite. On the day you were born, your cord was not cut; you were not bathed in water to make you clean; you were not rubbed with salt, nor were you wrapped in cloth. There was no one to look with pity on you; (...)

 

But I passed by; and saw you, immersed in your blood. I said to you, in the midst of your blood, "Live!" I made you grow, like a plant of the field. (...)

But you relied on your beauty; you trusted in your fame; and you began to give yourself to every passerby, like a prostitute.

 

But I will remember my Covenant with you in the days of your youth and, make in your favor, an eternal Covenant. So that you may remember, be ashamed, and never open your mouth again, because of your humiliation, when I have pardoned you for all you have done," word of Yahweh.

 

Is 12:2-3, 4bcd, 5-6 You have turned from your anger.

 

＊＊＊ Gospel ＊＊＊      

Matthew 19:3-12

Some Pharisees approached him. They wanted to test him and asked, "Is a man allowed to divorce his wife for any reason he wants?"

Jesus replied, "Have you not read that, in the beginning, the Creator made them male and female? And the Creator said: Therefore, a man shall leave father and mother, and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one body. So, they are no longer two, but one body. Let no one separate what God has joined."

 

They asked him, "Then why did Moses command us to write a bill of dismissal in order to divorce?" Jesus replied, "Moses knew the hardness of your hearts, so he allowed you to divorce your wives; but it was not so in the beginning. Therefore, I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, unless it be for immorality, and marries another, commits adultery." 

 

The disciples said, "If that is the condition of a married man, it is better not to marry." Jesus said to them, "Not everybody can accept what you have just said, but only those who have received this gift. There are eunuchs born so from their mother's womb. Some have been made that way by others. But there are some who have given up the possibility of marriage, for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Let the one who can accept it, accept it."

 

Gospel Reflection ：

"The two shall become one body." 

God's fidelity never wanes. He is with us when things run smoothly. He is in solidarity with us when things are not okay. God is always committed to stay with us no matter what, even in times when we are unfaithful to him. In our covenant with God, God is always faithful. His commitment does not depend on circumstances.

 

His commitment remains steadfast. As Christians, we are called to grow in terms of our sense of commitment. Commitment is holding on to the covenant we have entered into with somebody, no matter what it takes. Christians from all walks of life are called to holiness. A holy life is a life of commitment.

 

To cite, married people are called to holiness by exercising a good sense of commitment. In today's Gospel, the Pharisees came to Jesus, wanting to test him if he would concur with the idea of divorce. The Pharisees cited Moses' command to write a bill of dismissal in order to divorce (cf. Dt. 24:1-4). The answer of Jesus accentuated the challenge that people who entered into marriage should exercise commitment, citing God's intention that was there from the beginning-that man and woman shall become one body (cf. Gen. 2:24).